Alexandra Kay is getting real about her feelings following Thursday’s CMA Awards nominee announcement.
In a raw and honest video shared to social media, Kay held nothing back as she explained what she was feeling when she heard the CMA Awards nominations being called out and her name was not among the list, specifically in the New Artist of the Year category.

“I just found out that I didn’t get nominated for a CMA Award,” Kay said. “And I’m not gonna lie to you guys. I didn’t necessarily expect it, because I don’t actually feel like I’ve had a successful enough year, in the back of my brain, to deserve a Best New Artist Award at the CMAs this year. But, with that being said, I did qualify. This is my first year taking a song to country radio. My song ‘Straight For the Heart‘ climbed up the charts to No. 26.”
Not earning a CMA Awards nomination came around the same time Kay learned that her single was stalling out at country radio, adding to what had been a rather disappointing stretch in her career.
“I worked my a– off for every single chart position,” Kay admitted. “So when they called me a few weeks ago and told me, ‘We’re done. We’re not pushing the song anymore. It’s not moving up the chart anymore,’ I was devastated. I had pretty much the same day I had yesterday, when I found out I didn’t get nominated. And what a failure day looks like for me is lots of tears, lots of doubting myself, lots of anger, lots of just feeling so insignificant. Questioning everything.”
The rising artist says she allowed herself to feel disappointed, even if it was just for a short time, and that her boyfriend, Rocko, was there to hold her and let her fully feel the emotions she was experiencing.
“I’m telling you guys this because I only allow myself to feel that for one day,” Kay says. “I tried the whole Tony Robbins thing, where he’s like, ‘You can only feel failure for ten minutes, then you gotta bounce right back.’ That just doesn’t work for me, so you gotta do what works for you. So yesterday, after I didn’t get nominated, I felt it. I felt it hard. Rocko held me in his arms. I didn’t push those feelings down, and I felt them fully. It’s not about how many times you fall. It’s about how many times you get up. It’s about how quickly your response is. Successful people, resilient people, they don’t have fewer problems. They just have a quicker recovery time.”

Now, just one day later, Kay is ready to pick herself back up and move forward.
“So here I am on my back deck, getting ready to start a session with my trainer,” Kay told fans. “Getting on a flight to go play a show with Brett Young tonight. I’m writing some of the best music I have ever written in my entire career. And I did let it get me down, but I’m not going to let it keep me down. So, I’m gonna come back next year, and I’m gonna get it. And until then, I’m just gonna keep working hard.”
Fans rallied around Alexandra Kay in the comments section, applauding her for being real and encouraging her to move forward.
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